Sunday, August 3, 2014

Berry picking and picnic

Yesterday I think we succeeded in wringing all the fun we possibly could out of one day. :)

I let M sleep in a little bit when the kids woke up at 6:30 (he returned the favor today) and played with H and E in the living room for awhile. H loves to copy everything that E does, which I think is really funny since he's the older brother and I'd think she would copy him? Maybe it'll change when she gets older; I guess she's not really old enough yet (at 9 months) to copy most of what he does. Anyway, he was crawling around behind her, picking up whatever toy she picked up and then putting it in his mouth (or whatever she was doing). It's always funny when he does that.

When E took her first nap (she's a two-nap-a-day lady right now, which I LOVE, and they're usually both solid 1.5 - 2 hour naps. She is more than making up for the nap challenges she had when she was an infant!), I made bacon, biscuits and gravy for breakfast. DELICIOUS!!! I used to make them pretty often for MM, but haven't in over a year. They turned out very well, although I used beef bacon as the fat source, and I think pork bacon fat is more flavorful (I stopped eating pork years ago). MM rescued them with a tiny sprinkle of bacon salt that he made months ago and froze (basically you char bacon in the oven, then pulse in a food processor with coarse salt) and with that addition it was perfect.

When E woke up, we hustled out of the house (the one disadvantage of a two-nap-a-day baby is that we only get 2-3 hours of activity time between naps, which does break up the day quite a bit. But I'll take it over the alternative!) and drove out to a pick-your-own orchard about half an hour away. They have the BEST apple cider donuts (at pumpkin season you can get them warm out of the fryer! OMG! The last time we went I think I ate 6!), a goat pen, and a small playground in addition to all the orchards and vegetable fields. So we got some donuts and paid for a blackberry-picking basket, then went over to the playground to let H burn off some energy.





He loves the slide. He does not like the swings (I'm so confused - I LOVED the swings when I was little! I still like them, although I actually get a little motion sick now, which is a bummer). But he'll spend an hour going down the slide over and over. It was empty since it's not a peak picking time (it's packed every weekend in the fall when apples and pumpkins are available) so we got to take turns sliding down and then racing each other back to the ladder. :)



We finally pried him away from the slide to go visit the goats. They have little candy dispensers that are filled with cracked corn, and you can buy a small handful for a quarter, so we got some corn to feed them. This one was a total pig and ate most of our corn; there were 5 or 6 other goats that came over to investigate us but weren't hungry, and a few that just hung out on their toys in the middle of the pen.



He liked the goats but didn't want to feed them (or touch them in any way), so he just put his corn into the little corn chute that sticks through the fence.



E was not impressed.



Then we negotiated down to only 5 more trips down the slide, and after a quick potty pit-stop in the parking lot (we brought his potty with us; now that he's 3 we're getting serious about potty training), it was time to go pick blackberries! We drove over to the blackberry field, and while we were parking, a beautiful red fox ran across the lane right behind our car - it was really cool. I've never seen one that close before. We picked and picked - the blackberries were HUGE and very ripe, and it took maybe 20 minutes to pick 3 pounds. H helped a little, then spent most of his time squishing all the berries that had fallen on the ground.



I sat on the tailgate and nursed E while MM finished filling our basket, then we headed home. We rocked out to Harlem by New Politics all the way home at H's request (he says, "That's my song!") and the Doodle napped in her carseat. After a quick lunch, both kids went down for real naps, and I hung out with MM, made mixed berry galettes from a Pioneer Woman recipe for our picnic, and uploaded photos from my phone. When they woke up, we headed out again to the playground for a picnic dinner!

Delicious picnic (thrown together from the odds and ends in the fridge) of salami, cheddar, Wheat Thins, crusty bread, olive tapenade, turkey sandwiches, sparkling lemonade, and an apple for each kid, with the galettes for dessert. H grudgingly ate an apple and a few Wheat Thins, then wanted to play on the playground. E attacked her apple like it was her job - each time she's been given an apple (maybe 3 times now), she spends at least half an hour (if not longer) completely devoted to eating it. With only 4 teeth, 2 of which are barely erupted, she doesn't actually ingest much of it, but boy does she love working on it!



Look at those fat little arms. Look at the rolls! I just want to bite them all day long.

E's new trick is doing, "So big!" and she loves it - she'll do it dozens of times in a row, mostly when we're eating. H likes to do it with her. Here they're both doing "So big!" but E didn't want to relinquish her apple. :)



Here is a proper execution. :)



Then it was past bath time, so we packed up our picnic remnants, drove home, bathed the kids, and got them into bed. Later on when I was putting the blackberries away, I discovered that almost ALL of them are infested with tiny little WORMS!!! Dr. Google assures me they're probably harmless fruit grubs, but YUCK!!!! I don't think I can eat them after that discovery. :( A sad, sad waste of 3 pounds of beautiful blackberries.

Worms aside, it was pretty much a perfect day. Even the weather was perfect - cool and overcast, which is great for playing outside all day. I had a wonderful time, and I wish we could have weekends like this more often!





Saturday, August 2, 2014

Workout goals for August

I used to be a fairly serious runner. I wasn't that competitive (I'd do the occasional race, mostly for fun) but I ran a fair amount, could handle serious distances (there was a time when a "short run" was anything less than 10 miles), and I was reasonably fast, at least for short and middle distances. My last real race was back in 2009, when I did a 10 miler at 7:54 pace, which I think is respectable.

Anyway, I didn't run when I was pregnant with H because I'd have serious BH contractions and they alarmed me. Then I ran a little after he was born, but never really got back into it regularly, being busy with my clinical year of vet school, first year of work, and having a baby. I was just starting to train again when I got pregnant with E, so instead of trying to run, I'd take H on long stroller walks, usually walking 4-5 miles on most of my days off, and incorporating a playground stop, so we both enjoyed them. :)

When E was about 8 weeks old I started trying to run again, and OH MY PELVIS - ligament laxity is a serious thing, man. I'd do 2 slow miles and feel like someone had taken a sledgehammer to my pelvis. I'd limp around for the next 24 hours with pelvic pain and then days would go by before I'd work up the courage to try again. I didn't have that problem after H, and I don't know if it's because that sort of thing gets worse with each successive pregnancy? If I had a third baby, would it be even worse? Or is it something that is totally variable with each pregnancy? It seems like it would continue getting worse each time, but I don't really know.

So I figured out that I could do about 1.5 miles before my pelvis started complaining, so I tried to get into a routine of doing a very short little jog 2-3 times a week, hoping that would help my body adapt faster. It seems to have helped (or else it was just a coincidence and everything was slowly going back to normal on its own at the same time), and the other day I ran 4.5 miles without much trouble. I'm very, very slow. Like, hovering-around-the-10:00-mark slow. But I really love running for relaxation and for enjoying time outside in beautiful semi-wooded scenery, so I care more about being able to do distance right now than speed. I have no racing plans in the near future (even if I wanted to, either MM or I work almost every single Saturday, and I'm not going through all the trouble of finding a babysitter and paying an entry fee for a race short enough that I could handle it soon). So my goal for now is to regularly run a reasonable shortish distance (maybe 3-5 miles) and enjoy it.

I also started swimming again, when we joined the Y so that H could take swimming lessons. I LOVE TO SWIM!!! I love how relaxing it is, how meditatively monotonous it is to swim lap after lap, how silent it is under the water, how great a workout I get with no impact, the feeling of gliding through cool water, how spent I feel when I'm done with no physical after-effects like crippling pelvic pain! I didn't realize how much I missed it. It's been . . . . . . . . at least 8 years since I did any actual swimming, and I only learned how to swim - meaning do an actual stroke with semi-proper form - as an adult, so I was never that great at it to begin with. And now I'm really slow, and I can feel that my technique is poor, but it's still so relaxing that those things don't really bother me. And they'll get better with practice. I've gone swimming maybe 4-6 times since we joined the Y, and I would like to go more frequently.

So, workout goals for August:
Run twice a week, for an average of 4 miles each time
Swim 6 times, for an average of 1200 yards each time
Go to at least one Bikram yoga class
Do at least 3 strength workouts at home

Friday, August 1, 2014

Golden weekend

I'm on day 2 of a 4-day weekend! And even better, it's a golden weekend - meaning that we BOTH have off BOTH Saturday and Sunday!!! That happens maybe 5 times a year, so it's always very exciting. And flies by way too quickly, of course.

The Doodle has been sleeping pretty well for the past few nights - she's been a more challenging sleeper than H ever was, but for weeks she'd been STTN or only waking up once to eat, then going right back to sleep. Then we went to the beach for a week with my sister's family in mid-July, and we shared a bedroom with both kids, so anytime E cried at night I would get her out of the crib and nurse her so that she wouldn't wake H. Apparently she got used to that, because her sleep got worse and worse even after we got home, to the point that she was waking up 4-5 times a night and needing milk to go back to sleep. I'm not a "cry it out" fan, but I don't get up with her at the first peep - often she's just griping a little bit between sleep cycles and falls back to sleep on her own within a minute or two. So I will let her cry for 3 minutes while I wait to see if she's settling down or ramping up into being really upset, and recently, each time she woke up at night she'd get really upset and need to be picked up and fed. She's 9 months old and eats well during the day, and at those middle of the night feedings she'd be rubbing her eyes and fussing, and only end up drinking 1-2 ounces, which made me think she wasn't really hungry and just wanted to nurse back to sleep. Anyway, I ended up changing her bedtime routine a little bit, and waking her up fully before putting her in the crib (instead of letting her fall half asleep nursing or drinking her bottle and then just moving her to the crib still half asleep). Since I started doing that, she either cries for 1-3 minutes then falls asleep, or falls directly asleep with no crying at all, and then sleeps through the night without intervention! Hallelujah!

So last night, MM and I made our third attempt to move her into our bedroom (previous 2 attempts obviously failed) (oh - H sleeps in our bedroom [in his own bed], and E sleeps in a crib in the living room. Whoever is on baby duty that night sleeps on the couch. I'm tired of sleeping on the couch every other night.) and it went very well. The two bonuses of this setup are that we can both sleep in bed together, which I miss, and that we can stay up after the kids go to bed and not be crowded around the little light above the stove trying to read without waking E, who was sleeping in the living room. We actually started a MOVIE!!! On the television! It was amazing!!! Previously we'd have to huddle around an iPad, each with one ear bud since we'd be sharing a pair of headphones, and it wasn't really worth bothering. But last night we sat on the couch together, we conversed above a whisper, we ate Ben & Jerry's ice cream out of the carton, and we watched Star Trek Into Darkness! Well, we watched half of it, because then it was 10 PM and goodness knows I can't stay up any later than that. :)

Anyway, it was a very nice start to our golden weekend. Additional plans include a picnic, a trip to a local pick-your-own orchard to pick blueberries (or whatever; we're not particular) and visit the goats, making blueberry galettes, doing laundry, swimming class for H, making biscuits and gravy for breakfast one morning (MM spent summers in the deep south with his extended family, and LOVES biscuits and gravy. I used to make them for him regularly, but it's been awhile), and finishing Star Trek. I can't wait. :)